My Unplanned Pregnancy Story *EMOTIONAL* | Episode 1

Am 28 Jan 2021 veröffentlicht
Hi guys! I shared my story briefly last year of my unplanned pregnancy, but wanted to share more in detail of everything I went through, my struggles and lessons I learned along the way. I'm also not saying what anyone should or shouldn't do if they were in my situation- this is simply my story being retold.
If you had a similar situation or are going through it right now, I would love to know in the comments. I found it helpful knowing I wasn't alone by hearing others' stories and hoping my story can do the same for you.
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KOMMENTARE

  • If you liked this video, make sure to check out the 2nd episode in the series - dename.info/film/4LZ9sWu404GhZ38/video

  • Congratulations! May I ask have you heard of 'Aniball', 'Epi-no Delphine Plus' birth facilitating devices, the mechanical versions of the traditional method of avoiding tearing and episiotomy, and shorten birth, employing the Plastic Surgeon's technique of painless, 'skin tissue expansion'? The gentler birth for baby, which are detailed on my DEname channel 'Avoiding tearing - Opening Doors for Baby to 10cm'. Thank you for viewing and sharing.

  • How would your parents have supported you if you followed through with the abortion? It’s sounds like their pro life beliefs were supported but the pro choice was more of you’re on your own.

  • do you think your mom purposly was sending you to THAT kind of photo shoot?

  • very proud of you babe love you britt

  • Omg so sorry

  • You are powerful. I don't care that he tried to disarm you. You are a powerful woman and you will always be that. I'm sitting here across the world in Asia and your story brought me strength and courage. You. Are. Powerful

  • Women have fallen so far from truth..

  • i dont get how she got pregnant!? can someone help?

  • did she answer someone w where her rings are from?

  • I started university at 22y/o, my best friend on my degree started when he was 37. It’s not too strange in general, some of us have had struggles or a previous career. He sounds so awful though, I’m so sorry you had to go through this 💙

  • congrats on your new pregnancy!!

  • Not only the fact there was a child at the shoot, but the fact her name was liberty. Now THAT is a godwink

  • Great video🥰

  • I went through the excat same emotional and physical abuse not long ago at the exact same age..dont get me started on the blackmailing....as you narrate this story,I see myself in you...

  • This video has so many great life lessons for all of us, especially younger women in toxic relationships ❤️❤️

  • I'm so sorry you went through that nightmare. 😔 Respect.

  • I have an almost identical story! My baby is turning 20 and he saved my life! God sent him to me to save me from a road of destruction I was on. I was an invincible 19yr old also who never had to worry about much.

  • I’m 22 and went through a very similar situation fairly recently. I feel your pain and I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. Thank you for sharing this. There are such terrible people like him but such a huge blessing came from such experiences❤️

  • Girl, I know your pain all too well & my heart breaks for what you went through. I met my husband of 19 years when I was 19 years old. Three months into our relationship, I had a surprise pregnancy following a round of antibiotics making my birth control fail. Now, here I am 4 daughters & 19 years later & as of two weeks ago, I finally worked up the courage to end my emotionally & psychologically abusive marriage. It's scary & overwhelming but the sense of peace I now have is greater than I could have ever anticipated. I appreciate you sharing your story & admire your courage. Thanks so much!! 💌 Much Love from Oklahoma 💌

  • Praying for you!

  • Gods grace is upon your life

  • All I can say is Thankyou 😭❤️

  • You have all my support ❤️ Your story is so impressive and you are so brave sharing it with all of us ❤️ Im sure this will help a lot of young women ❤️

  • I just found out that i am pregnant! I am fucking freaking out right now! I dont know what to do!

  • Thank you for being so brave to share your story. I was 16 and pregnant and I remember telling my mom. The most scariest thing ever. ❤️ made me so emotional listening to your story.

  • You deserve better he don’t deserve you I hope you feel better

  • You sharing this again and reliving it as you speak about it will help you heal through it a little more. ❤️

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story. We can all see how hard this is for you yet you still told us. You're so amazing. Thank you

  • What a strong, badass momma bear!!! You and Jayden were truly made for each other, God and the stars aligned for the two of you!!!💗💞

  • Just found your channel! Thank you for sharing 💛💛💛

  • I just want to comment that having an abortion does not cause infertility. Patients actually have a higher chance of getting pregnant again soon after the procedure.

  • sorry for everything!! but quick question where do you get your rings??

  • ❤️🥰

  • your skin is absolutley glowing!! you should film a skincare routine

  • Thank you for sharing your story ♥️

  • Thanks for sharing Britt...I’m sure this vid inspired plenty of people in a similar situation that you were in, you are such a strong mama and woman and an amazing role model❤️

  • Just curious does Jaedyn see her biological dad?

  • Can I just say how refreshing and amazing it is to hear you admit that you were ‘naive’ and admit things like ‘you thought it was below you for this to happen’ - wow. You’re inspiring xx sending love

  • Im half way through your video, and I wanna tell u im so proud of you for sharing, I can tell it was so devastating.

  • This is the story that brought you Jadyn. It's amazing

  • what a beautiful testimony. God bless you and your family!

  • damn girl... i lived a life pretty similar to you. relationship everything... it sucks i know. glad you got out. i am still trying to get out, 10 years later

  • This is kinda why I’m a little more scared for those who have been single for a long time. You may encounter a relationship without knowing if this relationship “is normal or not” and you kinda have a naive mindset (at least I know I had) please be careful when entering a new relationship and don’t ignore red flags. My story: I was 17 when I had my first boyfriend (I wouldn’t even want to call him a boyfriend because he was nothing like one). It took me a while to leave this relationship because my family knew him and thought he was a good person. He has never asked for my consent when it came down to s*x and he did it when I was on my period too (I always cried when this would happen). Luckily, I was not pregnant. After leaving such toxic relationship, I realized he was manipulating me, and took advantage of me since I was pure and new to relationships. I felt more like his s*x toy then an actual real life human being. I strongly feel like he has done this before to other girls. To this day, I have not told my mother about what happen. I’m afraid of her reaction and I’m afraid that she’ll be disappointed of me...

  • This guy was so manipulative and evil but in such a pathetic way.

    • BRUH, that whole photoshoot experience has the hand of God written all over it.

  • Wow this is so emotional, thank you for sharing xo

  • Thank you for sharing your story.

  • You’re stong women

  • I'm sorry, but are you sure that the photoshoot wasn't a set up by your parents? I mean, a make up artist talking about " her sister getting an abortion" ? One last shoot of you that turns out to be about "life after having a baby" ? Did you ever see " the article" that they made?

  • i went through something similar in college. and i wanted to keep everything from my parents as well, but they ended up finding out through something i had no control over. i was so scared to disappoint them and i know they were a little disappointed but parents really love us more than anything and will do anything for us

  • setting everything aside, can u tell us how clear ur skin is

  • I love this family so much tho 😭❤️

  • Telling your parents such extreme big news (that should have come from her and only her to her parents) all because of cookout/party she was going to. Sheesh.

  • Just want to say people can be in college at any age...

  • All your angels put you in front of it all! You needed to see the signs!

  • This is so important for everyone to hear - especially teenage girls. Thank you for sharing

  • You are such an inspiration in so many ways.

  • Thank you foe sharing such a personal story- very brave of you! So glad you had supportive family who encouraged you to make the right decision for you. I want to put it out there that having an abortion does not affect future fertility. Having multiple surgical abortions can increases risk for Asherman syndrome but that is also rare. xx

  • Her name was “Liberty” ironic or fate. 🙏🏽

  • Yes, breathe. You are so strong for sharing this story as vulnerable as it may be. 🤍

  • You are amazing 🤍

  • My daughter is 11 I'm 27 she's my little best friend I love her so much and I'm so proud of myself for raising her right , but i don't plan on having anymore kids unless God decides other wise. Having kids is really hard i became and adult really young

  • Its okay honey, you got this!

  • P.s.WOMAN OUT THERE WITH TOXIC PARTNERS : SEEK HELP, DONT EVER LET THEM PUT YOU DOWN, STAY SAFE❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏GOD BLESS ❤️

  • You are BRAVE , STRONG AND A MARVELLOUS MAMA! GOD BLESS ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • This was everything a testimony. I love the verse you shared cause I just shared the same verse a day ago Jeremiah.

  • I was going to click out when she got to the part of him locking her in that room I was like wait what 😮

  • Just because you have an abortions does not mean you cant have kids later on. What bullshit! Of course if there are complications, but the chances are very slim.

  • So raw, so authentic, so heart breaking. You're strength to speak open heartedly is something I truely admire.

  • I've never watched your channel in my life, came up on my feed! This was such a HUMBLE and HONEST video. I had to comment and say kudos to you for being so vulnerable and opening eyes of others. My mom had me at 16 and says often she would never ever change a thing, because she would have been walking around this world like a little naive girl in a woman's body and I forever changed her.

    • she would have grown up either way. But great that it worked out for her and you

  • You're gorgeous and a style inspiration~~!!

  • Honestly, it's so incredibly rare though to not be able to have kids after abortion, so that's clear for anyone reading this comment. Fact check.

  • Thank you so much for having the strength to share your story so publicly. I'm confident that you're helping so many others by knowing that they aren't alone and that you rose up from this and reclaimed your life to build such a beautiful and loving family

  • girl i know how you feel youre so strong! i was raped freshman year and never told my parents until my sister brought it up the following year at the beach and i was so scared and sad but youre strong and beautiful and young and you are inspiring young woman!

  • Hey guys, I met you thanks to TikTok and now I am a huge fan of your DEname channel. I subscribed and hope to win the iphone :)

  • Tip: watch on 2x 💘

  • I'm so sorry that you had such bad luck to meet such a douchebag. You deserve the world.

  • “Allah (God) doesn’t always give you what you want, but always gives you what is best for you.” -Islamic quote. “Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear...” -Quran 2:286. This are 2 of my favorite Islamic quotes that i live by, so proud of you, you are such a strong person. And in Islam we believe that if a woman is in a very hard place and she keeps a child Allah (God) will help her. Please watch “the meaning of life”-Islamic spoken word, its truly magical and it will change your life for the better, I recommend that video to you with all of my heart please please watch it or look into Islam u don’t have to follow it or anything but just look at it just a bit it will literally change your life please please.

  • God was all over your life. Each time you say “what are the chances?” “What a coincidence” “how lucky...” It was not by chance that your boyfriend told your parents. It was not by chance that you were at that shoot. I had an unplanned pregnancy as well. My boyfriend and I had only been dating 3 months. It was the hardest thing to tell my parents (also very conservative), but they were very supportive of our decision to get married ASAP and have the baby. In contrast to you, I’d always wanted to be a mom and knew immediately that I’d have the baby... just was very scared to tell everyone around me. Now we have 2 beautiful baby boys:) We had nothing, no money, no house, but by the grace of God, He provided everything we need and our boys are well taken care of by our generous friends and family.

    • beautiful story! God definitely had a plan for the both of you!🤍

    • God is great and wonderful, Amen to you and your family, God Bless your two sons and you're Husband ❤

  • my god women are amazing.

  • WOW

  • thank you for sharing it will help more people than you would think!! you are being so raw and real here and that is very brave

  • I think it’s also important to talk about sex education for young girls as well such as birth control and practicing safe sex. What a great story you shared!

  • I think kids don’t understand that sex is to reproduce children. Yes it can be enjoyed but God made it for that end result.

    • She wasn"t a child. She was an adult if she was 19.

  • You ARE invincible! Your story is the best proof for that! :)

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  • Sweet Girl Brittany the Universe rewards the Brave. There will be girls who will now not feel alone as you are speaking your Heart. Kind deeds change lives. Thank you for your bravery. Hugs & Kisses 💟💟💟 Australia 9.16pm 5 February 2021

  • i have so much respect for you. so incredibly strong. thank you for sharing your story. take care love✨

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  • 10:52 I’m crying my mom was in the exact situation with her first born coming from a Mexican family, but she didn’t let that Asshole take control. You’re such a huge inspiration! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • I’ve rewatched this again because of how inspiring you are such a strong independent women that you are!Jadyn is super lucky to have such a great mum!💕💞💓

  • Thank you for giving hope for other young women and their unplanned pregnancies. God always has a better plan than we do! What a beautiful family you have created while trusting Him.

  • I’m subscribed

  • Thank you for sharing Brittany!Hope everybody here becomes successful on DEname 😊😍

  • you chose LIFE

  • So glad I clicked on your video , my daughters name is also JAYDEN and she always complains how it’s a boy name and I always remind her that it’s a strong unisex name which makes her a powerful and strong girl! She was super excited to find another girl named Jayden! Thank you

  • I already subscribed

  • "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" John 3:16 Repent

  • I've always ALWAYS admire you. keep going!!! you;re doing it amazing..

  • really hope karma catches its kiss for this man. godless you and thank you for sharing your story